Being Different

Have you ever had anxious thoughts about others' perception of you? Do you ever feel you should behave or dress in a certain way in order to fit into the crowd? 

Today I wanted to write a post that differs form my usual fashion and travel themes. This idea was inspired by a recent boat trip that I was invited to. I have been thinking about this idea for a while but I was really worried that this topic may seem a little...controversial. Also, I worried that others may misunderstand the meaning behind this post.

I never spoke of this topic to anyone except those who are close to me. I decided to take a DEEP breathe and make this post happen because I wanted to help encourage others to be brave and to be themselves, just as others have helped me.  

Most of the time I can come across as a very chatty and bubbly person. However I do have a certain insecurity, bikinis. The thought of wearing a bikini makes me feel really self-conscious and I feel extremely insecure. Nevertheless in this day and age, almost every single girl wears a bikini when they go swimming. I have been wearing a swimsuit for a number of years. Gradually over the years I felt 'old fashioned' because I received comments from acquaintances about my swimwear. When the time came for me to replace my swimsuit, I decided to 'upgrade' myself to a tankini. Unfortunately I felt even more anxious about my new tankini...Lol

I don't want to drag this post and end up writing an essay, so here is my story of facing peer pressure and self-consciousness. 

I hope sharing my story has helped you understand that it is ok to be different. 
We are all different in our own way so don't be afraid to be yourself. 

 No matter what you're anxious about, it's ok. 
We are only humans after all, I'm still learning to overcome anxieties too! 
We are in this together!

Thank you so much for reading. Please feel free to leave a comment to share your views or advice on overcoming anxiety. 

Have a lovely day.*BIG hug* (^-^)